View Full Version : Is Spanking Sexual???
I know this has been asked before but I'm taking it to a different level.
grins - a poll ...
First I'm going to define sexual as listed on Dictionary.com
sex·u·al ( P ) Pronunciation Key (sksh-l)
adj.
1.Of, relating to, involving, or characteristic of sex, sexuality, the sexes, or the sex organs and their functions.
2. Implying or symbolizing erotic desires or activity.
3. Relating to, produced by, or involving reproduction characterized by the union of male and female gametes: sexual reproduction.
Of course the Poll is merely a way to try and broaden the perspective and in no way can it reflect every individual's preference in describing how they feel - so please keep that in mind :). (I also had to limit the poll from about 20 choices lol)
so here we go ....:rolleyes:
It certainly can be sexual shyla, or not. It just depends upon both individuals and what they're in to. sirena
Alex1804
23-08-2003, 01:09
giving a spanking is always sexual for me - couldn't imagine it not to be
when I did spank/cane somebody in a non-sexual way (diet encouragement) found it very frustrating at the time!
Alex.
roddy9uk
23-08-2003, 07:03
Originally posted by shyla
Of course the Poll is merely a way to try and broaden the perspective and in no way can it reflect every individual's preference in describing how they feel
Broaden perspectives? My word shyla, you ARE ambitious..;)
mikesmad
23-08-2003, 07:58
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mikesmad
23-08-2003, 08:12
I did vote and its private!
sara_surrey
23-08-2003, 08:28
I find it gives me nice feelings, but if I was playing a naughty schoolgirl (my fave roleplay) then I wouldn't want to end up having sex with someone who was playing my teacher/father or whatever - it would totally ruin it for me.
Even spankings where I am just a naughty sub, never lead to sex with the spanker because I am married and don't have nookie outside my marrital relationship.
So for me, it's not sexual, despite having some sexual arousing aspects in it. (If that makes sense!)
Sara
xxXXxx
roddy9uk
23-08-2003, 09:09
Going from earlier polls as well as this it would seem to me that the responders fall into 3 distinct categories.
First, those who see spanking/CP as merely another way to indulge in sex (with whatever gender/species)
Second those who see it as a "pure" pleasure in itself with no connotations of sex attached (although of course recognising that their own view might not coincide exactly with their spaning partner's view)
Thirdly, and I would guess by far the largest category, those who treat it differently according to circumstances. A spanking in the marital bedroom being different from one at a party for instance!
Unfortunately it sometimes seems that those in category one seem unable to accept that thiers is NOT the only approach..ho hum..such is life..:)
Not necassarilly (this should have spell checker) frenchie.
This time of year there are lots of pretty women in any town centre wearing all kinds of alluring outfits. I find that arousing but I wouldnt say I have had a sexual experience with them.
wild rose
23-08-2003, 09:45
I was going to tick, yes always, but sometimes it's jsut not possible to follow it up with anything other than a kiss goodbye at the door as the time has run out. :cry:
And there have been times (not many, but a few) when I've been with someone who it wouldn't be appropriate to get more intimate with. Because it always turns me on, I'd be very picky who I'd chose to spank me. If I wouldn't sleep with them, I wouldn't let them spank me.
That's not to say that I would (or want) to sleep with the people I've been spanked by in the past, I just don't want to be turned on by someone who turns my stomach.
wild rose
23-08-2003, 09:47
I should add that I haven't met anyone like that via this board - in case that last comment seemed a bit strong...
There's a big difference between it being sexual than it actually leading to sex ie intercourse.
If it wasn't, to some degree, sexual I'd probably take up dominoes which is less strenuous.
wow Handy
Hate to say this but i catually agree with you on that last comment!
cheeks x
Thanx cheeks.
Incidently, my Burns piece may seem a bit off topic. That's because I intended it to be a new thread...Sorry :confused:
Yes Handy your Burns piecs sounds very off topic....
and on the On Topic section too......tut tut tut......someone's gonna be in trouble me thinks...and it aint me for a change :D
* points Handy in the direction of the New Thread button* heh heh
Originally posted by roddy9uk
First, those who see spanking/CP as merely another way to indulge in sex (with whatever gender/species)
bottommark
23-08-2003, 13:09
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lancashirelass
23-08-2003, 21:17
Being spanked definitely gives me pleasure in my let's say sexual regions. While I have never actually orgasmed while being spanked, I have come very close.
I don't have intercourse these days, due to physical problems in those areas. But I often crave relief, that is easy to attain if the spanker (men only) is willing to let his fingers do the talking. In return I can and will help the spanker if he so wishes.
I hope the above has not offended anyone.
Originally posted by lancashirelass
Being spanked definitely gives me pleasure in my let's say sexual regions. While I have never actually orgasmed while being spanked, I have come very close.
I don't have intercourse these days, due to physical problems in those areas. But I often crave relief, that is easy to attain if the spanker (men only) is willing to let his fingers do the talking. In return I can and will help the spanker if he so wishes.
I hope the above has not offended anyone.
No offence at all. I enjoy bringing a lady to orgasm if I can ... all part of the service if they wish it :)
Well, I think, that spanking could be sexual.....if.....the spanker or spankee cums during or after the spanking. sirena:D
StrictlyDavid
26-08-2003, 21:51
Lol, sirena.
Spanking is sexual to me in that it turns me on and I wouldn't be interested in spanking anybody that I didn't find attractive. But, I definitely wouldn't expect a spanking to lead to sex as I prefer to keep that for the special, non spanking, relationship in my life.
Nobody said much about masturbation. Spanking stories, pictures, videos, memories or fantasies are just about the only stimulation I've used to bring myself off for as long as I can remember. So pretty sexual in that regard.
Oh yeah...I do like all that too....sirena
Arthurod
27-08-2003, 10:40
This particular question is always cropping up. A nice range of variations in the poll this time, and some interesting statistics emerging!
Arthur
Therapist
27-08-2003, 11:46
I think of spanking as separate from sex. I could role-play spanking as a teacher, uncle or father. I feel privileged to be trusted when a lady agrees to a spanking, and to attempt anything else would feel like a serious breach of that trust.
naughtieone4u
27-08-2003, 12:52
spanking drives me into a world of unknown..add a nice stern strict voice to it...and im gone to paradise!:rolleyes: :D
bottommark
29-08-2003, 09:09
As They used to say on " The brains trust " " it all depends on what you mean by sexual " i think erotic might be a better word
I often used spanking fantasies during sex to make it better....... I s'pose that's a bit like thinking of the partner being a rock star or whatever .........
I never have to daydream about sex during a spanking though.
Like a lot of women - stories also do it for me :)
I go along with StrictlyDavid. Spanking in all its forms usually arouses me and often leads to masturbation. When it comes to actually being spanked, that is a sexual turn-on too, but it has rarely led to having sex with the lady concerned.
However, I do feel frustrated if, for various reasons, being given hand relief is not possible. Orgasm, for me, is the final release in what has hopefully been an hour or so of teetering on the edge of punishment and pleasure.
Rouemaster
29-08-2003, 19:54
I agree with bottommark, spanking is certainly always erotic but is it sexual? Well, yes and no.
First of all, I like spanking. In images, video and and textual stories it's a source of erotic arousal and sexual stimulation. In real life, my experience is slightly different. I have been to spanking parties, which I enjoy, but I feel that there is something missing. The (submissive) girls are very enthusiastic but I know in my heart of hearts that they are only letting me spank them because of the money that they receive. And, hence, I find it erotic but not truly sexual.
However, if my (usually vanilla) partner allows me to spank her then this takes it to a different level. In this scenario I know that she is allowing me to do this because of our relationship and the bond between us. This, for me, heightens the excitement and the experience is not only erotic but also very sexual.
spanking for me is very sxual - and very frustrating. I have a vaniila partner and therefore wouldn't cheat, but the very act of spanking is a big turn on made worse by the fact that you know you've turned the spankee on too.
There have been times of adjbusted trousers and nickers and sitting apart to cool down - when you reall just want to rip each others clothes off.
So fun, frustrating - but very sexual!
Signs(IMO) if something is sexual:
Male: the penis becomes engorged, even slighty...
Female: the groinal(?) area becomes even a tinsy bit moist.
Are the 'no' group SURE about their assertion???????
I think the majority agree with you Snoop, if you look at the poll. However, many people are unwilling/unable to follow through on the sexual aftermath. Many folk will percieve spanking as non-sexual unless they ARE able to incorporate sexuality into the scene as well.
imho
dee.
roddy9uk
12-09-2003, 12:02
Snoop, the question was "Is spanking a sexual ACT for YOU", not please note "Are there sexual connotations to spanking" or "Do some people regard spanking as sexual". The question also specifially mentioned ACT rather than discussion.
A "fetish" is an object or act NECESSARY for sexual pleasure, not an object or act that MAY bring sexual pleasure.
I suspect those in the "No camp" as you out it have a good idea of how they feel.
It is perfectly possible to be aroused by discussion/viewing of a spanking while not finding a spanking in itself to be sexual. As far as the recipient is concerened anticipation of pain generally has the opposite effect as the body moves into "defensive" mode. This of course precludes "erotic" spanking games where pain is not going to be present. This does not stop the whole thing being enjoyable, just means that for some it is definitely not a SEXUAL enjoyment.
A lot of the replies here appear to assume spanking and discipline carried out by opposite members of their sex. What about spankings between two people of the same sex? I don't know whether there is the same sexual charge for a woman sub if she is being spanked by another woman rather than a man - presumably like everything else that is down to individual tastes and circumstances.
I certainly know it is possible for male to male discipline without it being a gay encounter.
Also the sexual aspect of spanking does not necessarily have to be confined to the sub or the dom carrying it out. I mean you can enjoy sex later with your own partners.
PAIN is a sexual stimulant whether the spanking is M/f, F/m, M/m or F/f.
Bet no one here realised that ;)
HR
You're right. But not the only one. Otherwise this site would just be about hurting people.
oldbugger
15-09-2003, 02:46
you bet, it get me and the wife going very time
Originally posted by ty-rant
You're right. But not the only one. Otherwise this site would just be about hurting people.
I was mainly thinking about things from the spankee's angle. There have been instances quoted by bottoms where pain is equated with a kind of love making. For the spanker, it has to be aesthetic because how can He/She truly experience the pain?
Obviously a lot of couples get turned on and it ends up in straight penatrative sex as practised since Eve tempted Adam with that apple.
HR :)
Everyone is different as these threads constantly show and too much analysis can do your head in! many spankees get a straight sex buzz from being spanked which opens them up. Equally many will tell you that the pain just hurts, especially initially, and the buzz comes through later with an adrenalin rush and feeling of incredible release. As a switch I would say both are true but the important thing is that there is a very fine balance between pleasurable and unpleasurable pain. The first is great and the second the quickest turn-off you can experience. The skill is to get the one without the other.
For me spanking would be a part of foreplay...I could not let a man spank me who I didn't care about or love.....Well, that's just how it is with me......fawn xx
david pierson
20-09-2003, 07:19
It had better be or I've been doing it all wrong.
From Penny Birch's ' The Indignities of Isabelle'. " There is something about a girls bottom that simply cries out for chastisement; partly the beautiful shape, but mainly, I think, the fact that a woman's bottom exhibits her sexuality in a way that brooks no denial".
I do love that line.
David
DRIVER5593
17-10-2003, 02:01
All these learned folk and I a simple "lorry Driver". If it ain't fun don't do it! Since we all do it, at least those of us here, it must be fun! Spanking is fun! Sex is fun! Take two kinds of fun, put them together and what do you get? MORE FUN! STOP ANALIZING AND HAVE A LITTLE FUN!:D
mikesmad
17-10-2003, 07:48
Hey Driver.........that was quite sensible frae a Harley rider LOL...
....and so true!
I am the novice in the bunch but it would seem there are many members who would entertain a spanking from the same sex and yet are not gay.
As such i think the spanking does turn them but not as we would normally think of it.
Of course there are those who would only entertain their sexual preferred gender doing the spanking and as such their mind thought is very different.... or perhaps the spanking makes them so horny they need the right gender on hand !
Perhaps part of the answer is a definate yes but it does not have to be for the person spanking but just your own innerself
Happy spanking
dave
:D
McPhlail
21-10-2003, 23:30
I could not let a man spank me who I didn't care about or love.....
Indeed, fawn, that is the best of sentiments. Whilst I can well understand the excitement and thrill of the 'one-off', rather like a wild passionate one-night stand, the ideal that you express here is one that, if shared by all who profess to love the scene, would transform its image totally.
I have to feel some bond with a friend whom I spank. Even where it involves a lady who spanks/is spanked on a fee basis, that 'liking' helps a great deal. People like SpankingLiz, Shanelle and LadyPandora, along with the very small number of other kind ladies whom I have met, have provided ample proof of this.
My one experience of encountering a person who (so far as I was concerned) exhibited a totally cold personality and commercial attitude was far less enjoyable than it ought to have been.
Very best wishes to all
DRIVER5593
21-10-2003, 23:33
Just gonna keep analizing huh?
DRIVER5593
22-10-2003, 22:03
So I'm gonna guess...... you like it?:D
LordBenbow
26-10-2003, 06:23
Hi Princess
Erotic OTK's are most certainly exquisite - and I do them very well. Pity you are in the US of A - not sure my tardis can go that far. Lovely picture
youngrosaleen
03-11-2003, 10:40
An excellent question and one sure to provoke a different opinion in everyone. I have mixed feelings. I get sexual enjoyment from spanking which are purely disciplinary (as well as occasional erotic spankings). Does this therefore make them sexual?
Leothealion
07-11-2003, 20:04
Originally posted by youngrosaleen
I get sexual enjoyment from spanking which are purely disciplinary (as well as occasional erotic spankings). Does this therefore make them sexual?
I think that`s a yes Rosaleen (if that really is you). Do you feel guilty about that?
DRIVER5593
07-11-2003, 20:27
How could a spnaking not given in hate be anything but sensual?:D
Uerberator
08-11-2003, 14:59
Originally posted by DRIVER5593
How could a spnaking not given in hate be anything but sensual?:D
But is spanking the same as sensual (as I'm sure I've said before...)
Lancisto
09-11-2003, 11:31
You what, Uerby? Do you mean "is sexual the same as sensual"?
Uerberator
09-11-2003, 16:36
Originally posted by Lancisto
You what, Uerby? Do you mean "is sexual the same as sensual"?
Thanks Lanc. I'm sure I edited that rather blinding error, but obviously it still got through...
MaxOTKlover
09-11-2003, 17:08
Love the pic, Princess. How any guy could not be turned on by putting you across his knee? The sensual aspects of spanking is what turns me on. A pretty girl enjoying having her panties slowly slipped down for a firm spanking does it for me every time. I'm not at all into the bruising side of things. I find the sight of deep welts etc really off-putting and in some cases pretty distressing. Mild otk of a slender young and consenting female is what would turn me on most of all.
Max from West Palm Beach.
MaxOTKlover
09-11-2003, 18:54
Hi Princess, Nice to see you in the chatroom today. I wanted to PM you but thought you might think I was being forward. Have a great day, princess
haughtylady54UK
09-11-2003, 19:33
Who cares - as long as both parties enjoy the experience!
PhilEssex
23-11-2003, 10:01
haughtylady52UK sums it up.........
Who cares - as long as both parties enjoy the experience!
I totally agree
Phil
luccille
24-11-2003, 20:10
is that you Princess?
You are truly a stunning lady! What man could put you over hs knee and not find spanking your bottom sensual at least?
That is from a woman's point of view!-and not in any way ''sexual'' as I am straight with partner and young child! just an observation!
enjoy the admiration!
Love Luccillexxxxxx
Certainly a thought-provoking thread..these do tend to be initiated by this thread author on a regular basis.! ;)
I've posted my vote (personal), and don't want to chip in to the debate per se.
The spanking scene is many things to many people, with myriad motivations and expectations for the participants. As several have pointed out in their posts, as long as the participants achieve their specific goals, and enjoy themselves in a safe way, then more power to their elbow (pun intentional!)
As a comparative newbie to this site, I'm yet again amazed by the diversity of views, and the respect shown to the opinions of others. Long may this continue!
Respect to all!!:goteam
I find this so difficult to answer, although my answer would be qualified no. It depends so much on my mood. A lot of men tend to equate spanking with the sexual side of things (very boring), for a lot of women that is not the case. It certainly isn't for me. Now what goes on in my head I will leave that to your imaginations :cool:
Yes I do like going over someone's knee for a good spanking. The thrill of having my skirt lifted and my panties being taken down is almost as good as the "punishment":stoned:
roddy9uk
09-12-2003, 19:47
I agree with you there Whirly..though from a male bottom's perspective...
So who has lifted your skirt !! :D
Are you trying to tell us something here?
Originally posted by roddy9uk
I agree with you there Whirly..though from a male bottom's perspective...
mikesmad
09-12-2003, 21:40
Originally posted by Ranger
Certainly a thought-provoking thread..these do tend to be initiated by this thread author on a regular basis.! ;)
I've posted my vote (personal), and don't want to chip in to the debate per se.
The spanking scene is many things to many people, with myriad motivations and expectations for the participants. As several have pointed out in their posts, as long as the participants achieve their specific goals, and enjoy themselves in a safe way, then more power to their elbow (pun intentional!)
As a comparative newbie to this site, I'm yet again amazed by the diversity of views, and the respect shown to the opinions of others. Long may this continue!
Respect to all!!:goteam
Ah'll ask McD if ye can hae a Mods job Ranger....
..... Mind ye'll hae tae stop sookin up tae Nosey!
My feelings is that spanking is part of the foreplay of sex. The level of trust that is needed between the dom and sub is at the same level as is required for good lovemaking. The openess of the sub to recieve the spanking etc and the concern that shopuld be shown to the sub by the dom is something that should lead on to the sex act. I can think of no greater gift to me as a dom than a sub who offersme her bottom. This neds to be rewarded
Originally posted by mikesmad
Ah'll ask McD if ye can hae a Mods job Ranger....
..... Mind ye'll hae tae stop sookin up tae Nosey!
Me a Mod? I"ll wear a Parka and ride a Vespa for no man, Jimmy!
Sucking up to Nosey ? This from one who just got his arse mangled by her! HA!!
Now go back to putting cheap presents in expensive-looking boxes, and let the grown-ups get back on topic.
Asmodeus
10-12-2003, 12:25
For me spanking is an erotic practice. Surely without the erotic content its just hitting someone, which isn't really very nice.
Life should be about pleasure, and spanking a compliant woman is one of the great ones, for me.
:)
goodgirl
10-12-2003, 17:42
Is spanking sexual?
To me yes it is sexual. The act itself may not be, as in that it does not always lead to sex. However for me personally I could never "just" be spanked, in the context of a party or a meet or any other venue. I am not belittling those that do, just for me, I could not do this.
I have thought long and hard about this recently, as I am single it will be a long time before I partake in any sort of "play". I personally can and will only enter into a relationship like this where trust is paramount.
Perhaps over the coming months my view will change - after all I came here thinking I was nilla with a hint of raspberry and now look at me!
If I can move away from seeing this as an emotional journey with my partner then perhaps I would be able to expand on it more, I like the pain, I just can't deal with the "hurt" of it! I am sure people will not understand that last statement - however I know some of you will, thats why this site is so good.
Right enough of me opening up my innards ;) Time to get back to more mundane things...........like sitting in chat waiting on a conversation to happen.
K
x
roddy9uk
10-12-2003, 17:56
Reading these posts a thought occurred to me..just my impressions but..
Those most likely to find spanking sexual are male Tops..followed by female bottoms (how convenient) followed a fair way behind by Switches with female switches lagging behind their male colleagues..and least likely to find it sexual are the male bottoms and the Female Tops who deal with said males....
If that is so..and it is a big IF..then this may help account for why there are frequent "clashes" on the threads as some members will be using words that have completely different connotations to them than to other members? Just a thought
That pretty well sums it up for me.
Originally posted by roddy9uk this may help account for why there are frequent "clashes" on the threads as some members will be using words that have completely different connotations to them than to other members? Just a thought
IMHO: It still surprises me at the number of men that equate spanking / role play with sex or some form of sexual contact and virtually assume that you think the same way. That comes from people you have only known for ten minutes! I cannot think of any other interest or "hobby" that works that way.
Between partners then it is another kettle of fish so to speak.
Spanker44uk
31-12-2003, 06:04
For my part, I find that spanking a suitable consenting female partner's bottom to be a very sensual and sexually stimulating, however as sara saysI find it gives me nice feelings, but if I was playing a naughty schoolgirl (my fave roleplay) then I wouldn't want to end up having sex with someone who was playing my teacher/father or whatever - it would totally ruin it for me.
Speaking as a Spanker, I would not feel comfortable having sex with someone who has just played naughty schoolgirl (my favourite also)/daughter/niece with me, and as sara does, I think that this would spoil the occasion. Also, I am married and don't have nookie outside my marrital relationship. I definitely wouldn't expect a spanking to lead to sex as I prefer to keep that for the special, non spanking, relationship in my life. I have to agree with the sentiments expressed by sara and David.
If, however, my wife found being spanked to be an enjoyable and stimulating experience (which, unfortunately is not the case), I have no doubt that a spanking would almost certainly lead to sex.
Well, that's my tuppenceworth - hope it makes sense!
tuckerjenkins
31-12-2003, 13:31
For Me it is sexual only to the point that it does turn me on and it is something I enjoy thinking aobut later/thinking about before and it definitely creates a sexual reaction in me *smile*...However as for the spanking of the time having any connection with later sexual activity well definitely not for me as a spankee.
When in the past I have been spanker I have to say the less satisifying times for me from the position of the spanking and the session has been when sex has followed.
I rather like to seperate the two.
Hope that makes sense
tucker
x
I find Spanking/Roleplay/Dressing up to be fun and stimulating on different levels.
I'd say I find everything more sensual more than sexual, but exciting none the less.
Perhaps 'Satisfying' is the word I'm looking for to describe the feeling. :) (but not a sexual satisfaction) :confused:
My spanking experience has been with my two previous girlfriends and was sexual to me.
As a voyeur, I've seen others spanked before at events and enjoyed it - turned on - without actually participating (I was in monogamous relationship then).
However, the thought of being spanked does nothing for me at all.
So, being the spanker in a heterosexual situation or watching that is sexual for me. But being spanked or spanking a male does not.
Saying that though, I am looking to also try spanking without sex too.
Rooster (my first post, but had to reply).
MasterJohn
30-01-2004, 15:49
I've voted Yes - always.
For me the sight of a naughty female bottom, even if fully dressed, always turns me on.
Not only that, given the position my partner is in, I prefer to intersperse my spanking with other intimate activities, which I have been assured are well appreciated lol
Isnt this an odd world - quite right of shyla to put this to the poll.
(This the second of your topics Ive found myself drawn to shyla - keep up the good work.)
Master Pan
08-02-2004, 22:21
I think that spanking is part of our sexuality, whether or not we acknowledge that consciously. As evidence, most people are only attracted to spanking either a male or a female. Were sex not an issue it wouldn't matter, would it?
For those in relationships with partners genuinely "into it" it's the flavouring needed to make the meal enjoyable. Without it sex is just routine.
Someone said to me the difference between vanilla people and us is that vanillas played with spanking to get to "the good bit" For us, the spanking IS the good bit.
However, I don't think that spanking anyone necessarily leads to sex, nor do I think it needs to take place only in a relationship. It can be a thing on it's own. It may, and should, turn both players on, but it doesn't follow from this that sex is inevitable between them.
CaringHands
09-02-2004, 11:10
It is sexual of that there is no doubt, but if you get pleasure from the spanking it need not lead to sex.
I have wondered what other men think if they are spanking only with no chance of it leading to sex. Does that frustrate you? It does me I have to say.
I know from many conversations with ladies that there is a degree of frustration at times when they get so turned on by the spanking (or indeed as a result of several spankings) but not by the spankee or the spankee is a stranger and so it does not go farther.
It is my experience that if this is continuiously repeated the level of CP tends to get higher and higher almost as a substitute. Do any ladies here find that to be the case?
If you have sex with the spanking do you need less to achieve satisfaction than if there is no sex at all?
Is spanking sexual ?, i agree it can be , if there is an attraction between the two practioners.
If two people meet and are physically attracted then seeing that person half naked across your lap with such close contact must ( i suggest ) stoke some sexual fires.
HOWEVER it does not always follow that sexual activity takes place. It may start and finish in the mind.
For some Spanking is a release , a desire, a yearning to be loved, a feeling of escaping into another world, a reinactment of times when there was nothing to worry about plus a whole host of other feelings and emotions.
My view is - spanking is many things to many people and if practised with respect and care for each others thoughts and views it is a pastime to be enjoyed regardless.
And yes it often gives me the horn !! lol !!
zeus
Asscrave
09-03-2004, 04:58
Is spanking sexual?? My thought is they go together it's the greatest freaken turnon in the world. Nothing like it!!:cool2:
Pinkcheeks
10-03-2004, 19:53
This has been discussed time and time again, I personally think it depends on the mood of the relationship of the people involved.
Pinkcheeks
xxx
Asscrave
16-03-2004, 18:45
This is true there are someinto spanking not becasue of sex.
As far as myself though yea sex is part of it for sure. What can I say I like a good time:D
bluealbatross
02-06-2004, 19:55
It is certainly sexual for me,if the wife spanks me Im ready for it when she has finished and she knows it,however if our friends spank me I still find it sexual but cant do anything about it.
Mad_Vic_McDourns
02-06-2004, 21:24
Is the Pope Catholic?
Is snow white, or a slushy grey?
I think i may have said this before, but i think theres a difference between it being sexual or sensual, but perhaps its just me being a clever tottie and playing (stupidly) with fancy words ?!!
It must do something in your 'nevers' whoever u are me thinks, or why else are we all here in our droves with pages of nonsense about the said topic LOL!!!
Seriously though, for me Sexual is when the person makes a difference in other ways than just the spanking bit.
It's what they say, do, who they are, what i may feel for them etc.
Sensual is anyone else who does it well for me, and its...nice.
HGAC (havent got a clue) is the majority that i rebel and brat against ... (just kidding folks, no ganging up Ok?)
Emma
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