What do spankers feel about the clenching of buttocks during a punishment. I was once given extra strokes by one master for doing this. I am told that if you can relax whilst being punished it hurts much less, but if you can tense and release between strokes it helps the pain and gets the circulation going.
I guess that if you tense during punishemnt it hurts nore as the skin is pulled tighter. I dred being bent over very tightly as I know it hurts a lot more, thus another topic. What is the best position to get somewbody to bend over to get the bottom at thye best tightness for a sound caning without them moving easily. Am also interested in how many spankees restrain their sub during a punishment and what is the best item to bend somebody over for restraint.