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  1. #1
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    an erection while spanking

    Hi Guys
    I was wondering if any of you tend to gain an erection while spanking a lady and if so do you feel guilty or uncomfortble and try to hide it

    As someone who visits professional spankees some of which offer additional services I dont tend to worry too much about it However I have on ocassion taken the trouble to place a cushion on my lap before taking the spankee acrosss my knee as this solves the problem more or less

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    i tend to get an erection while being spanked

    hence the reason that i will only let a woman spank me

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    Perfectly normal to getan erection on both counts, as spankee (male) the rush of blood to area Makes it virtually impossible to stop.

    Happens to females getting aroused too and same reason often. Its WHAT you have agreed and limits set and how one behaves in eventually that counts !!
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    The answer on the first question: mostly and in some degree.
    The second answer is: no.
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    personally i would see it as bloody rude not to have an erection while over a ladies lap for a tanning.....

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    i presume this means spanking is sexual?
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    The male may start with an erection over my knee, but once I get started.........it shivells
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    Quote Originally Posted by lottey
    i presume this means spanking is sexual?
    Judging by the sight of my skirt after spanking some men. Yes I suppose it is.
    All before my newfound happiness of course

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    Quote Originally Posted by lottey
    i presume this means spanking is sexual?
    For some people Yes, for others No.

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    Hi I have spanked a number of ladies and find that I never get an erection from spanking them the only lady I get one with is mrs marker I put that down to the fact that love is involved when spanking mrs m which accounts for that so in my opinion if you are just spanking a lady friend then there can be arousal if you are close but if it is someone you are not that close too then there will be no arousal.

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    Might be down to age. Young virile types are bound to get an erection - its natural. Golden oldies probably have them a bit less. Its natural and not to be embarrassed about.

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    Can't see the point in spanking or being spanked if one didn't get an erection, or in the female case aroused.
    Unless you like the really severe stuff and you get turned by the BDSM side.
    But that's not for me.
    I fantasise about severe canings but wouldn't inflict really severe pain in real life.

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    big mystery!

    This one really is a bit of a no-brainer. If the purpose of consensual spanking is shared pleasure, signs of arousal on either side won't cause either embarrassment or inconvenience. On the contrary.

    The only minor problem, not mentioned in the original post, is if the arousal should end in premature fulfillment. This can happen to either party, but is really the subject of another thread, or maybe a later post. For now, let's just say that good will and good humour will get you through.

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    spanking is about the ONLY thing gives me a boner these days

    when i was 17 all i needed was a seat on a bus to get a raging horn for the rest of the day. nowadays i need a hardcore lupus video just to get a morning semi-on

    i dont think any spankee (professional or otherwise) is going to be offended by a lump in your trousers. in fact most would find it a compliment

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