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    When you get older

    Do some of you ever regret what you didn't do.

    For me I suppose-without wanting to be too rude - was when asked by my then GF to Give her Oral sex. I was shy but did it and loved it. then she asked me to spank her which I hesitated about then did. Then she did me which is a whole other story

    Now I am lot older than say my early twenties I just wish I had been more confident

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    Scarily, I first read that as your then GP . . .
    Currently being rather well looked after by that well-known Toppy-Monster-Around-Town, Clovis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katiebug View Post
    Scarily, I first read that as your then GP . . .
    Sadly she wasn't and is now a geography professor at big name US Uni But I must admit your idea sounds even sexier and kinkier. I Must have a bad cold more often
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    There's nothing particularly rude about oral sex! I love to both give and receive it.

    I suppose there are times I wish I'd been a bit more adventurous in my youth - but then some types of adventure I have in mind might well have prevented me from making it into my fifties healthy and happy so, you know, swings and roundabouts...

    One thing I'm very glad I did do is come to London. I'm still not the most gregarious of people, but moving down here and making a lot of new friends did a great deal to bring me out of my shell and introduce me to, for want of a better term, 'alternative lifestyles'.
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    Thanks LL. Hope we are mates again. Sorry about earlier in the week.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Burgundy View Post
    Thanks LL. Hope we are mates again. Sorry about earlier in the week.
    If I thought we were on bad terms, I wouldn't be posting on your thread.
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    Thank you sweetie

    Apart from saying thank you for being so decent I think my point was well when I was 18 or 19 all the things were broadly about were not on the normal radar at least of me. Getting my hands up Davina's skirt to grope her in her huge was pants for me then was all I could hope for..Well ...

    Now the issues for our kids and frankly for us as an older generation or two are a lot harder I think

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    Quote Originally Posted by katiebug View Post
    Scarily, I first read that as your then GP . . .
    Yeah, doctors are like coppers - they all seem to be getting younger! Or am I just older than I used to be?

    ... and nowadays, they're not all blokes any more

    Nobody loves a smartarse

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    True but... ..
    I would love to hear some serious and bit sexy answers too. Not like I have all the answers.

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    I feel very rude an embarrassing now. I didn't mean to come out with it. Well done Jes

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    As my dear old Mum used to say, "you can't unring the bell."

    Burgundy, regrets are negative and pointless IMHO and a complete waste of time.

    The thing to do is imagine asking yourself the same question 10/20 years in the future.
    Then, if you can come up with an answer start rectifying it now.

    Failing that, invent a time machine my friend and hire it out.
    You'll be a millionaire in no time (excuse the pun).

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    I guess the adage of "better to ask for forgiveness than permission" is relevant here.

    I regret lacking in confidence with socialising period, and regret not taking the opportunity to accept olive branches extended to me.

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    Just to clarify, your question: does it pertain to any regret (so, vanilla regrets), or was it meant solely for kink regrets?

    Vanilla: Walking away when my father passed away. He was utterly unconscious, in a deep coma, so wouldn't have been aware if I was there or not. Still, walking away haunts me to this day.

    Kink: never had a kinky partner, so not even had the opportunity to have a missed opportunity!

    One thing I know I absolutely WILL regret is not keeping up with my Mandarin studies, so I am working diligently on that.

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    My signature on here used to say....... no regrets.......... Ive said before, I really dont want to reach the age of 96, sat in one of those big old chairs at the old peoples home and look back thinking ........if only I had done this, if only I had done that etc: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I love being around positive people. All the moaning negative ba****ds can get stuffed. They will just drag you down with them.
    We are only here for a certain length of time so make the most of it.

    Regrets, I've had a few
    But then again, too few to mention
    I did what I had to do and saw it through without exemption
    I planned each charted course, each careful step along the byway
    And more, much more than this, I did it my way. .........................(maybe not exactly lol, but hey !! you get the idea !!!!!!)


    Im with Shuffler: Look forward, think positive. Not allways easy, and I most certainly know that and accept that ..... but !!

    supersub in philosophical mode......(i think thats the right word )
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    Thank you sweeties.

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    I. Don't know to be honesy why I asked in the first place. [

    thsnkd for the response and being nice and so on. Hope you are well and are having fun. QUOTE=Toku;1233665]Just to clarify, your question: does it pertain to any regret (so, vanilla regrets), or was it meant solely for kink regrets?

    Vanilla: Walking away when my father passed away. He was utterly unconscious, in a deep coma, so wouldn't have been aware if I was there or not. Still, walking away haunts me to this day.

    Kink: never had a kinky partner, so not even had the opportunity to have a missed opportunity!

    One thing I know I absolutely WILL regret is not keeping up with my Mandarin studies, so I am working diligently on that.[/QUOTE]

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    I think having reflected on this Toku that the main thing I regret now as I am a lot older is not having been brace enough either to do kinky things or to tell people that I loved that I did love them and so on.

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    On the same theme of anodyne generalisations, I came across this well-know quote at lunchtime:
    "The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid & deeds left undone"
    Oh so true. Though to be honest I think Shuffler's approach is the healthier option. Carpe diem and all that!
    And, for white-collar wage slaves, there's the classic "I defy you to show me anyone who on their deathbed said 'I wish I'd spent more time in the office'". Kinda neatly sums things up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Burgundy View Post
    Do some of you ever regret what you didn't do.
    My main concern is making sure there's no evidence left of what I have done in the event of my unexpected demise.

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    I echo the previous post, now where did I put my ex spankee's knickers?...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buxton_Bloke View Post
    I echo the previous post, now where did I put my ex spankee's knickers?...
    Yes: unlike most of the stuff I have in mind, those can't be encrypted!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KPTN View Post
    My main concern is making sure there's no evidence left of what I have done in the event of my unexpected demise.
    So where do you keep your canes?

    I was happy to dispose discreetly of such items for a friend whose approaching death was all too expected. He wanted to avoid embarrassment to his family and by then he was no longer sufficiently mobile to do so himself - but as you don't know whether you will be knocked down by a bus tomorrow, you are not going to ask somebody to get rid of toys you are still hoping to use next Saturday.

    Nobody loves a smartarse

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartarse View Post
    So where do you keep your canes?

    I was happy to dispose discreetly of such items for a friend whose approaching death was all too expected. He wanted to avoid embarrassment to his family and by then he was no longer sufficiently mobile to do so himself - but as you don't know whether you will be knocked down by a bus tomorrow, you are not going to ask somebody to get rid of toys you are still hoping to use next Saturday.
    When I was diagnosed a few years ago with a potentially terminal illness, now thankfully in remission, I gave away my extensive collection of straps, tawses, paddles and canes to another dom whom I knew, retaining only my favourite dragon which I have carefully stowed in a location which is still accessible to me but will not be discoverable by others until the house is demolished. It's a straight cane anyway, no crooked handle (my crook-handled dragon was one of those I gave away), so it is unlikely that even if it were to be found in those circumstances, any but one of the cognoscenti would give it a second thought.

    When you get a diagnosis like the one I had, it changes things: we all know intellectually that we're going to die, but when you get that diagnosis you really know you're going to, if not by what was diagnosed then by something else (as you say perhaps by the proverbial bus) and it changes the way you look at things even after, as in my case, it gets postponed for a while.

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    Isn't there a small part in all of us that dreams of doing a Reggie Perrin ......???

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